I said to my kids the other day, “Is it most important to do your best, or is it more important to do the best? What’s going to be more fulfilling for you in your life?” We’re so conditioned to do the best. And the reality is that doing your best and not being attached to the best is going to allow you to have more whatever it could be, [for example] emotional stability. You know, if you become attached to being better than your brother, better than this other person, there are inherent letdowns in all of those things.